tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1733374478468668484.post6481613365450847024..comments2023-03-31T21:27:25.278-04:00Comments on Divorced and Sassy: Cats and SOB ex husbandsdivorcedandsassyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06048488368354813696noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1733374478468668484.post-44646939318033995332008-04-30T14:32:00.000-04:002008-04-30T14:32:00.000-04:00No no and HELL NO!!!If this was a court visitation...No no and HELL NO!!!<BR/>If this was a court visitation he would be losing his rights. I found this out a long time ago. The judges don't see any reason for a father to dump their kids on someone else for those short little visits either and looks REALLY bad on the Dad. 2 days a month? Seriously wtf? Priorities anyone?<BR/>Oh and the cats? This is why I don't have one. ONE stinks to death that many? I would have to be put in an asylum and kill J for even suggesting I was crazy for wanting to get rid of them.Special Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14943592086235666151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1733374478468668484.post-33782608492587617062008-04-29T13:01:00.000-04:002008-04-29T13:01:00.000-04:00I'd be LIVID about al ... i mean seriously, he has...I'd be LIVID about al ... i mean seriously, he has a limited amount of time with his children anyhow, and then he passes them off to his mom? Not cool.<BR/><BR/>As for cats, i'm not a fan of cats to start with ...Kirstenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07497557740894791524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1733374478468668484.post-37858768057380691152008-04-29T09:51:00.000-04:002008-04-29T09:51:00.000-04:00I have already told him that landlord thing... you...I have already told him that landlord thing... you and I think a lot alike. Thing is, he doesn't care. I actually went as far as to say that the county called me and said that they knew and they were giving a warning that would soon be followed by a visit. He didn't care! He said whatever! I don't think he realizes that if someone calls the county they will write a ticket which will have to go to court thus causing MORE FINES. It makes me so mad. The other night the cats were chasing each other and they jumped on the table in the kitchen, they pulled the placemat onto the floor causing Kevins juice to go all over the floor and Jesse blamed Kevin for having a glass of juice on the kitchen table! That whole fire thing could have caused some serious damage if I hadn't been in the living room. It smelled and ALL of the electronics could have been ruined. He just does not care. I know I have a say and believe me I have said enough. This is one thing I am not quiet about, but wtf? When will he listen? And about Al, he is just like his father. Which means there will be no relief in sight.divorcedandsassyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06048488368354813696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1733374478468668484.post-18978305208056247892008-04-29T09:44:00.000-04:002008-04-29T09:44:00.000-04:00Wow I would be furious too about Al! He cant just...Wow I would be furious too about Al! He cant just save 1 night for just his kids? Geesh. But there really isnt much you can do. Kevin needs to say soemthing to his dad about how he feels. Coming form you will just cause a fight.<BR/>I'm sure there is something about each cat that Jesse loves but does he know it's actually illegal for you guys to have that many cats? I believe the max is 4. You should tell him the people downstairs made a comment about how they know you have more than you are allowed becuase they can hear it when you are gone. Then you could say you are afraid they will call you in. There are fines.... You couldalways say you will negotiate down to 4 the max. You have a say in it too Angie. youa re the one home all day taking care of them.<BR/>I went nuts when we had 3 cats! They were always laying all over Dave at the end of the night...but he would ignore they were there and rol over them to get to me and if they got smooshed they ran.Ladiebughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18245278665880851669noreply@blogger.com