tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1733374478468668484.post7193112865702916030..comments2023-03-31T21:27:25.278-04:00Comments on Divorced and Sassy: a fatherdivorcedandsassyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06048488368354813696noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1733374478468668484.post-8312498377163941622008-03-28T11:06:00.000-04:002008-03-28T11:06:00.000-04:00It is totally up to the kids. . . it's not about w...It is totally up to the kids. . . it's not about what Allyn wants .. and there's no reason why he can't call one of them dad and one of them daddy ... or both of them daddy. it says a lot that at such a young age that Kevin felt comfortable enough to want to call Jessee Daddy. they are not doing it to make Al feel bad. . . he needs to suck it up, and grow up ... and he definitely shouldn't be saying things in front of Bailee like "now remember he's jessee and now daddy) ... ugh.Kirstenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07497557740894791524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1733374478468668484.post-90880868223012455902008-03-28T10:27:00.000-04:002008-03-28T10:27:00.000-04:00I think the answer is easier than expected.It IS u...I think the answer is easier than expected.<BR/>It IS up to the kids, noone else. A father earns his title by love and respect, not from being a sperm donor.<BR/>Cameron was raised by Drew, he is in his biological Father's life now and calls him by his first name. I know it is a little different situation but still, he gives homage to his REAL father in MHO.Special Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14943592086235666151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1733374478468668484.post-4275986928471550632008-03-27T20:33:00.000-04:002008-03-27T20:33:00.000-04:00I believe Jesse is their father thru and thru. I w...I believe Jesse is their father thru and thru. I was there during the many months that Al was off (and still really is) playing house with someone else putting his kids off on the back burner. He still does when they arent with him. For him it's out of sight out of mind. In my opinion he should not be telling the kids not to call jesse daddy. that shows he is jealous or it really makes him feel guilty when he hears it becuase he knows it's true. I am sorry but he is just a jerk...putting it nicely. Ok fine he said it to Kevin but now he is obviously telling Bailee too....so sad. He should just step up and be in their lives more. Call during the week and say hey can I pick the kids up for dinner or hey I'm heading to the mall can I snag the kids? He needs to earn his right to be called daddy...let the kids decide on their own if they shouldnt be calling Jesse daddy.Let them feel as if they have enough in Al not making them feel bad for calling Jesse daddy. I bet it broke Jesse's heart when Bailee said that to him. I'd tell him hey lay off and grow up. There are kids out there that are all the better for having a set of parents.<BR/>Maybe you can suggest Kevin to call him daddy Jesse?Ladiebughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18245278665880851669noreply@blogger.com