Friday, April 4, 2008

You know what

I am fucking pissed off.

Boohoo that he has no fucking money. I haven't worked in 4-5 weeks and CANNOT work during the day because I have 2 toddlers attached to my hip and cannot afford the 1600.00 to put them in daycare and then the afterschool care for my 9 year old would cost more. We don't qualify for daycare assistance because Jesse makes almost 20.00 an hour. WHAT THE FUCK.

My ex and his gf make 6000 a month SIX THOUSAND DOLLARS. Where the fuck is their money going that he can say, hey can I wait 2 weeks to feed my kids????


This makes me angry.


Ladiebug said...

Ugh Angie when are you just gonna go and have it taken from his checks? What's it gonna take?
It's not fair to the kids or Jesse that you take his word that he will pay and then he doesn't for the umpteenth time.
Wouldnt it be nice to have a credit card that filled up every week (when it's due)instead of getting a call at least one Thursday a month saying he cant because he overspent. His finances are not your responsibility. Your kids are. Who cares if he gets mad at you for a few weeks? He will get over it like he always does. Wouldnt it be nice to at least have one reliable thing going for your kids since this all happened?

divorcedandsassy said...

well, it would be nice, yes. But here's the thing. I have NO IDEA where he works. He got a new job. He won't tell me where he works. And its not about him getting mad at me anymore. I don't care about that.... I am over that part. He disgusts me. Literally..... I will do it. I just have to find out where he works.

Kirsten said...

Angie -- do you have his social security number? Trace his employment by that ... well obviously you can't, but the state can.

Ladiebug said...

You dont need to know where he is employed when you start the process. They find it all and set it up for you. All you need is his name.