My ex husband sucketh.
Last night I texted him and said "how have you been?"
He says, "Ive been ok I guess, I need to talk to you about something soon".
So I say, "what's up?"
He replies with some BS about how he wants to claim one of the kids on his tax return this year and how he REALLY tries to be a good ex husband and that I should atleast consider it.
In my mind I'm going.... NO.
In my heart I am going.... maybe.
So I wait a little while and I finally reply with, let me talk to Jesse about it and I will get back to you.
He apparently doesn't like Jesse. He comes back with "IM SUPPORTING HIS FUCKING CATS SO HE BETTER MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION".....
Because yes, apparently we are living on his child support.... 775 per month.
Jesse buys food and pays for the rent.
A ROOF AND FOOD FOR HIS CHILDREN.
So I just let it go and say..... Im not asking him for his blessing, I am just saying that I have to include him on the conversation because if I don't I will get in trouble.
That pissed him off more.
Then he tells me how he didn't file taxes last year and that he got audited 2 years before that and that he NEEDS to claim one of the kids so maybe he won't owe money.
And that's my problem????
AND HE MAKES TOO MUCH FUCKING MONEY TO CLAIM THE KIDS AND HAVE IT MAKE A DIFFERENCE, but who am I to say that.
Anyway, I say, ok, I will get back to you.
Of course there was a few more texts about how shitty Jesse is in between there that I ignored.... but hey.....
So I just let it go.
I login to facebook and change my status to:
"@ngelena HATES fighting with him about money, it's the only thing we don't agree on"
His girlfriend saw it. She's on my friends list. I like her..... she's great. ( not a great "parent" but is a good friend, has been for years )
She says something to my ex. He texts me about how my status message makes him feel like not a good man and not a good father and that I am a huge raving shit ball. Oh and that he demanded to his gf that she is NOT to be friends with me anymore......
And thats what I texted him. WTF dude.
He just kept texting and texting and I didn't even get a word in except WTF.
Then I said, wait..... WHO SAID YOU WERE A BAD PERSON AND HOW DID MY STATUS OFFEND YOU AND WHY CAN'T EM AND I BE FRIENDS ANYMORE????
He didn't respond.
Thing is..... those who know me didn't even THINK for a second that my status was about my ex. Because HELLOOOOO J and I have money probs all the fucking time... so WHY would he freak out?
He said something about Em being pissed at him. Whatever... not my problem.
He's not claiming the kids. Not my problem that he KEEPS FUCKING UP HIS TAXES so he OWES money. Mr Smarty Pants isn't so smart. SINGLE ZERO ASSHOLE. period.
Of course, 2 years and hasn't filed.... Im sure he owes a pretty penny. maybe that's why he freaked on me over nothing.... STRESSED MUCH?
UGH. Sometimes I really hate my situation. DIVORCE SUCKS PEOPLE.... SUCKS.
In other news... I pulled a 3.6 GPA this semester..... !!! YAYYYYY! 3 A's and a B- ( damn that Business English class...... )
oh and it's snowing.
Happy New Year! Anyone got great big plans????