Everytime I talk to my ex mother in law something comes up that I don't generally know about. It makes me mad because no, I shouldn't be best buds with her, but how else would I find out that he passes the kids off on her so he can go out the TWO NIGHTS a month he has them? Seriously.
He passes up time with the kids to go out. There is something seriously wrong with this. He doesn't take the kids 4 nights a month anymore, hasn't since he met Emily. He takes them at 9am Saturday morning and brings them home 5 or 6pm Sunday evening. WHY would he need to hire a babysitter? WHY.
I hate him. I seriously truth be told HATE him.
And yes, Kevin was upset that his father hired a sitter so he could go out.
Did you guys see what time I am posting this? 7:16am, I have been up for like an hour already because the cats were chasing each other all over the house and using my face as a claw rest spot causing me to bleed from the neck. I am not happy. These cats NEED TO GO. I am not even joking. Last week one of them pissed on the power strip behind the TV that holds the plugs to the DVD player, TV, stereo receiver, CD player and playstation. It started on fire. No I am not kidding. I CLEANED IT UP. Jesse just took the strip and put it in the window in the hallway that leads outside.
Jesse asked how come I don't let Kevin's friends come over here. I told him the truth. Because we have 10 cats and as much as I try to keep this place clean and smelling fresh..... sometimes my efforts just don't help. Its making me crazy. We have 3 litter boxes going that he scoops everyday but still. It smells like cat in here if we don't have the windows open. Its embarassing. But HE DOESNT CARE.
The other night the cat puked on our bedroom floor. I told Jesse to get off his ass and clean it up. He wiped it and left 2 spots on the carpet. The next morning I CLEANED IT WITH THE CARPET CLEANER.
He won't get rid of the cats. When a friend of ours took one of the little kittens that were just a few weeks old he was "sad" that the cat left. He threw a mini fit that night and was mad at ME for "making him get rid of the kitten".
Its a problem. a big one. If I were to get rid of some of them secretly, he would never forgive me. Is that a chance I am willing to take?
Last night ( and every night ) we are watching TV in our room from our bed and he has 5 cats laying on and around him so I can't get close to him. When I mention something, he leans over to kiss me. Like "is that enough?" He doesn't push the cats off of him.
Am I wrong for being angry about the cats and Al's inconsistent fathering?